hello, 50 years old female here from Michigan. back to dating men my age and having yet another round of men who assume I'm going to put out on the first date. this isn't new, but maybe my response to them is.
I'm on a second dude this month who, before even meeting, has brought up having sex right away. quite honestly, it's exhausting. and before you come for me, my profile is pretty tame. head shots with a combo of body shots and seemingly normal conversations until meeting comes up.
th current dude I offered to meet this weekend since the last dude I went out with seemed normal until I went to drop him off at his car and he decided it was a good idea to whip his weiner out. now, this new one I'm trying to make plans with and he suggested we have "sexy time" but since I said no, he said fine, he can "be a gentleman" and "take me to lunch first."
I guess in the past I've tried to say stuff like "gee that's inappropriate" but since that gets me nowhere, I've decided to just start trolling these dudes since mature, adult conversation about what's ok and what isn't doesn't seem to work.
I point blank asked him "why do you think I'd put out on the first date?" he did respond with it doesn't hurt to ask."
anyway, just wanted to vent, thanks for coming to my Ted talk!
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